Waiting in the In-Betweens: A Journey Through Disability

Poem: “Where Silence and Whispers Meet”

By Kerry A. Wiley

Wait for me amid ocean waves,
On stars that are fleeting and fading.
Wait for me in the in-betweens,
Where silence and whispers are blending.
Wait for me in the morning’s hue,
As dawn paints the sky with its gold.
Wait for me in the soft embrace,
Of the stories yet to be told.
Wait for me where the rivers bend,
In the dance of the wind and leaves.
Wait for me in the quiet calm,
Of the nights when the heart believes.
Wait for me on the distant shore,
Where dreams and reality meet.

The poem “Where Silence and Whispers Meet” encapsulates the delicate spaces of transition, reflection, and quiet strength, offering a contemplative exploration of themes such as disability, grief, and loss.

Through imagery and metaphor, the poem invites readers to consider the moments “in the in-betweens,” where emotional growth and acceptance often occur. This exploration is not only poetic but also mirrors the real-life experiences of many individuals navigating the complexities of living with a disability.

In the In-Betweens: Self-Acceptance and Quiet Strength

Living with a disability can sometimes feel like existing in quiet, introspective spaces where silence meets whispers. These moments are about embracing a unique identity beyond societal labels. “Wiley’s Walk” emphasizes the importance of personal decision-making and recognizing inherent worth, highlighting the crucial concept of self-acceptance (Welcome to Wiley’s Walk, n.d.).

The poem’s call to “wait for me” represents the journey toward self-realization and acceptance, highlighting the importance of patience as much as the process of discovery.

Resilience and Transformation: Beyond the Visible Limits

Albert Bandura’s theory of self-efficacy, which refers to an individual’s belief in their ability to succeed in specific situations, provides a useful framework for understanding this process. Just as learning to play the piano involves initial uncertainty but builds confidence through practice, individuals with disabilities gain self-assurance by achieving meaningful goals. This growing confidence mirrors the “whispers” in the poem, urging individuals to embrace their identities and confront new challenges.

Resilience, a central theme in the poem, is not an inherent trait but a capacity developed through experience and support. A supportive network of family, friends, or mentors offers emotional support, encouragement, and motivation. Such a network is crucial for helping individuals remain focused on their goals and persevere through challenges.

The poem’s recurring idea of “waiting” highlights the importance of patience and the supportive presence of others, illustrating how community support can sustain and empower individuals, especially during difficult times. For those with disabilities, having a supportive community can alleviate feelings of isolation and foster a sense of belonging.

“Wiley’s Walk” frequently highlights how inclusive environments, where individuals are valued beyond their disabilities, significantly contribute to personal growth and well-being. Positive social interactions and strong support networks enable individuals to feel appreciated and included, promoting a sense of community and shared connection (Finding Solace in Words, n.d.).

Conclusion: Embracing the In-Betweens

“Where Silence and Whispers Meet” encourages us to acknowledge and embrace the subtle, transformative moments in our lives. The poem explores the necessity of understanding, resilience, and support, particularly for those coping with disability and loss. By emphasizing self-acceptance and the strength found in community, it celebrates the beauty of life’s in-between moments, reminding us that growth often occurs in the quietest, most unexpected places.

References

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• Welcome to Wiley’s Walk, (n.d.). Wiley’s Walk. Retrieved from wileyswalk.com.
• Finding Solace in Words, (n.d.). Wiley’s Walk. Retrieved from wileyswalk.com.
• Wiley, K. A. (2024). Where silence and whispers meet. [Poem].